Remove follow delete transitions corresponding to trash usages

A backward mechanism was implemented in NXP-24034. It forwards followTransition("delete") calls to the TrashService.

In order to remove it in LTS 2021 we need to improve it:

• add a configuration property / nuxeo conf property to enable it - mechanism will be disabled in LTS 2020
• add a warn logger of usage with a stracktrace - follow existing usages
• replace all follow delete transitions by trash service when corresponding to trash usages
• align bench codes and all satellite addons